- Polite Requests in English - Common Types of Requests - For help (e.g., asking for directions) - For respect (e.g., asking someone to be quiet) - For permission (e.g., attending a party) - Importance of Politeness - Avoid confusion or embarrassment with strangers - Use polite language even with younger individuals - Language Tips for Making Requests - Use modal verbs to soften tone - Could you please? - Would you please? - Make requests more tentative - Is there any chance you could? - Could you possibly? - Show respect when asking for permission - I was wondering if I could. - Do you mind if I? - I hope you don’t mind if I. - Examples from Cambridge Trip - Asking for Help - Could you please show me the way? - Is there any chance you could take me there? - Asking for Respect - Would you please be quiet? - Could you possibly lower your voice? - Asking for Permission - I was wondering if I could join you. - Do you mind if I take a photo? - Responding to Requests - Agreeing - Yes, sure. - Of course, sorry. - Not at all, let’s take a photo. - Declining Politely - Provide good reasons for refusal - Example: Sorry, the sign says no photography allowed. - Rewritten Dialogues - Customer and Waiter - Excuse me, could you please give us some chopsticks? - Sorry, we don’t have any chopsticks, but I can offer a fork and spoon. - Bus Driver and Passenger - Do you mind giving your seat to this lady and her baby? - Not at all, sorry about that, please take a seat. - Student and Teacher - Hi Mr. Brown, I was wondering if I could ask for leave tomorrow. - Sorry, only sick leave is allowed; you still need to come. - Practical Considerations - Politeness depends on context - Emergency situations require directness - Example: Someone drowning needs immediate help - Be polite in moderation - Lilei’s Improvement - Original Message: I want to know how to make requests. - Improved Version: Could you please teach me how to make requests? - Original Message: Reply me when you are free. - Improved Version: I’d really appreciate it if you could reply at your earliest convenience. - Next Episode Preview - Using “I’d appreciate” for invitations